Is getting married one of the hardest decisions for this generation? Why
Any decision that our generation takes is always harder in comparison to our parents. I definitely believe that getting married is one such tough decision. We have lots of criteria while choosing our life partner and we don’t want to compromise or adjust like our older generations.
The decisions related to Marriage is not only tough for this generation but also might be hard during our parents time but the difference is, today’s generation is more vocal about their choices. More choices come with more freedom so today most of men and women are already in a relationship before their marriages but are seriously confused.
Only a few are there who are in true love with their respective partners but the majority of them are just following the trend. So at the very beginning of any relationship, it’s better to clarify some points like, what is his/her view about marriage? Why he/she wants to get married? Does he/she seriously want to get married or it’s only to make their family happy for a short period of time at the expense of someone’s lifetime happiness? A marital relation should only develop when both the sides are equally willing and happy and the rest is on God’s grace.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment where compromise from both the partners is needed in every step. But today’s generation is not at all ready to cooperate so getting married is gradually becoming the toughest decision for them.
Subham Agrawal
SCSC Alumni batch of 2014-17
